tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467430172008806972.post4483175839898524213..comments2023-08-13T03:22:02.181-04:00Comments on unexpected moments: baby stuffSherylhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06355969043412582588noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467430172008806972.post-79358562674949198612012-11-16T22:04:56.936-05:002012-11-16T22:04:56.936-05:00Really accepting how little agency I actually have...Really accepting how little agency I actually have in getting pregnant has been one of the biggest things for me in dealing with everything. <br /><br />I think I'd have a much harder time with a room. At least with the baby stuff it's all out in a garage and I don't have to look at it if I don't want to - and I also have easy options for unloading it if it ever starts to get too painful. Sherylhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06355969043412582588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467430172008806972.post-58053582653769009382012-11-15T04:31:16.253-05:002012-11-15T04:31:16.253-05:00" Getting pregnant is not something that you ..." Getting pregnant is not something that you can control."... If there is something I have learnt in this 2 years of marriage that would be it. I really thought that *knowing* stuff would help, that it would led us there, and fast, when we started with this... But no, like you said, life will happen when and how it will. <br />We do not own baby stuff, but we do have a spare room that we painted in a light yellow hue...hoping we would eventually set a nursery there, and for some time I have been avoiding to even enter it (since it -s empty) cause it only reminds me of how hard this is. <br />Anyhow, I just wanted to send you hugs... and support, and just let you know that you are not alone in all these feelings. I think letting it go a bit (in the sense of just accepting things while you still try) is the key... Though it-s a lot easier said than done. Amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02424374017675047414noreply@blogger.com