tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467430172008806972.post8783973380626924321..comments2023-08-13T03:22:02.181-04:00Comments on unexpected moments: other people's babiesSherylhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06355969043412582588noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467430172008806972.post-36505733233906751582013-01-21T10:39:54.782-05:002013-01-21T10:39:54.782-05:00Remembering that my own path to babies is complete...Remembering that my own path to babies is completely unaffected by whether or not someone else is having an easy path there has been one of the best things to help deal with the jealousy monster when it tries to rear its head. It's hard to remember sometimes but it's so true.Sherylhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06355969043412582588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3467430172008806972.post-1967859356814252482013-01-17T08:15:14.195-05:002013-01-17T08:15:14.195-05:00I totally get you. I am happy and excited and comf...I totally get you. I am happy and excited and comfortable around pregnant people that I love and that are really close. <br />But random acquaintances, or people I just don't really know well: then it hits me. Then I get that "its not fair!" and "why not us" feelings. However I remind myself that this is my story, my path, the cards I have to deal with and that even if I wish it was easier, different, it has nothing to do with other people's stories. Thinking that helps. And yeah, sometimes I have to shut out, distract myself to stop the comparisons because they are the devil. Amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02424374017675047414noreply@blogger.com