I could write some commentary on this article here, but she's already said everything that needs to be said. This quote gets at it, but the full article is worth a read.
"If you are not a feminist (or something blamelessly ignorant, like a baby or a ferret or a college freshman), then you are a bad person. Those are the only options. You either believe that women are people, or you don't."
Also, beacuse the internet is full of goodness today, here is a gem from the Huffington Post with a take that I really embrace on the subject of "having it all" and what the means for women.